What is it with some guys?

Every day when I get ready, I consciously dress for myself. I don't dress for Peter, I don't dress for Jane, I dress for myself. I'm in a relationship now, but even when I was single, I never thought "I'll have my legs on show to impress the men I pass" or "I'll wear this vest top to the club because guys will find me sexy". 

Now I know some women think that way, but my point is, why do some men feel as though women dress for them and exist only to please them? And furthermore, why does the way a woman dress give you any kind of right to touch or catcall her? It's unacceptable and I don't feel as though the way a woman dresses makes them a target. I've been out in a hoodie and unflattering jeans and have still be harassed. It's as if, everything a woman does must revolve around a man. 

There are numerous articles online giving tips in how to be more sexy for men and how to flirt with them. Wikihow has some tips for looking "sexy" for a guy. These instructions incline being "clean" and wear "matching, clean clothes that fit" amongst other basic things. What I don't get it, if you don't do these things already for yourself, why are you doing it for a man?

I've heard and seen women and men talk about how "men hate tattoos" and "always act like a lady". For what reason? If a guy doesn't like me for me, he won't get far with me. I think woman should start doing what they want. Men want "natural women", no makeup, no implants, natural hair, yet, they idolise celebrities like Rihanna, Nicki Minaj and Kim Kardashian who all have "unnatural" elements to their person.

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